如何提高人际吸引力：这招社交法则让你人见人爱_时事

如何提高人际吸引力：这招社交法则让你人见人爱

我们身边总有些社交达人，无论和谁都能迅速热络攀谈，他们深谙人际交往之道，三言两语便可讨得对方欢心。要想和他们一样人见人爱，其实也不难。除了微笑、赞美几个常见套路之外，你还需要发自内心地相信你是人见人爱的。因为当你认为别人会喜欢你时，你会表现得更自然，看起来更友善，这会让你更讨喜。

If you want to make a great first impression -- and why wouldn't you? -- you know there are basic steps you can take: Smile, make eye contact, listen more than you talk, ask questions about the other person. Anyone can do those things.

众所周知，如果想给人留下良好的第一印象（为什么不呢？），你可以采取以下几个常规套路：微笑，眼神交流，少说多听，向对方提问。这些是每个人都能做到的。

But what you might not know is that if you think other people are going to like you, they usually will.

但你可能不知道，如果你心里认为对方会喜欢你，通常对方真的会喜欢你。

As research shows, interpersonal warmth explains the self-fulfilling prophecy of anticipated acceptance; study participants who expected to be accepted were perceived as more likable. (Or in non-researcher speak, when you think other people will like you, you act more naturally and come across as friendlier -- which then makes people like you more since we tend to like warm, friendly people.)