You don't like their family
你不喜欢他们的家人
And you don't have to. But unless your partner is also estranged from them, it's in your best interest to keep your opinions to yourself on this one. If you're hoping this relationship will last, it's a good idea to try to find some common ground with their family if you can.
你不一定要喜欢。但除非另一半也想和他们疏远,否则最好还是把这个想法留在心底。如果你希望这段恋情能长长久久,那还是尽可能和他/她的家人找共同点吧。
You're no longer madly in love with them
你不再疯狂的爱着他/她
Couples who have long-term happy relationships recognize that not everything is going to be sunshine and roses, and that ups and downs are a normal and healthy part of being together for the long haul. Early infatuation (being "madly in love") will generally change to quieter but still loving and romantic feelings-and that's a good thing.
谈了很长一段时间的幸福恋人有这样的意识:并非所有的一切都一帆风顺,对于长久恋爱而言,磕磕跘跘是常态。早期的迷恋('疯狂的相恋')会逐渐变得平淡,但你还是会爱、迷恋他/她--这是好事。
You think their family's traditions are weird
你觉得他/她的家族传统有点怪
The good news is, you don't have to do everything with them! You can politely decline to attend their annual lederhosen and liverwurst party, or spend the holidays with your own family. But don't belittle or mock their traditions to your partner, because it's mean and they might think you're trying to limit the time they spend with their family.
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