To Win at Marriage, Learn to lose
赢得美满婚姻,要学会认输
[1]Having been married for more than 40 years, I can attest to the truth of the following statement: to excel in the art of domestic argument, one must master the art of losing.
[1]做为一个结婚40余年的人,我可以证明下面这个说法完全正确:想要在家庭争执中得满分,首先要掌握认输的艺术。
[2]Modern psychologists are taken with the “win-win solution. But in marriage, success resides more in “lose-lose solutions. Out of these, both parties can win. For in the love configuration, losing gives a gift that always returns.
[2]现代心理学家们都醉心于“一赢再赢的解决办法,而在婚姻里头,成功往往在于采取“一输再输的策略。因为这样,双方都可以是赢家。在爱情的天地里,认输实际上永远是一份有回报的礼物。
[3]One day shortly after my wife and I were married, we set about picking new living-room wallpaper from a book of samples. My taste and hers were at odds.
[3]婚后不久的一天,我和妻子着手从一本样品手册中挑选起居室的壁纸。我们的爱好有了矛盾。
[4]“I like this one, she said. “That looks like a section of a diseased liver. “How can you say that? This is a classical pattern that goes all the way back to the Venetian. “The Venetian were blind. They named blinds after them, remember? I like this one. “I wouldn’t hang that in hell if I were the devil.
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