3. I have some good ideas on that...3.关于我有些好主意。
Its a red flag when people tell you about an idea. Its a stall. If the idea was that great, the person would just do it and the problem would be resolved.当有人告诉你他的一个主意时听到这句话你要注意了,这是在拖延时间。如果这个主意真的是很棒的话,这人会立马去做,问题也早就解决了。
4. I will try...4.我会去试试看
Not everyone has seen the original Star Wars movies. There is no try, per Yoda. When someone says try its a code word. It means: I know I am going to fail...并不是所有人都看过星球大战。正如里头Yoda说的:没有试一试这种说法当有人说试一试时候,其实就是说我将会失败。
5. Actually...实际上
This is a harmless word, right? Yet, it means trouble. What comes after it is a mild rebuttal, but the person is not really that sure. Actually they are planning to fail.这个词听起来无害,是吗?实际上就意味着麻烦。说完这个之后就是温柔的辩驳,但是这个人对此并不确信。实际上他们会失败。
6. You have my word on that...6.我答应你
Confident people dont use this phrase. Why bother?The person who needs to trust you will either do that or wont do that, despite whether you say this phrase.有信心的人是不会说这句话的。何必这么说一句呢?需要对你充分信任的人要么答应去做要么拒绝做,不管你有没有说这句话。
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