可能改变你一生的11个问题：你会怎样回答？_小升初阅读

可能改变你一生的11个问题：你会怎样回答？

5. Is my company a business I would want my children to run ? 我会不会想让孩子来经营公司的业务 ? There may be aspects of your business you wouldnt wish on your worst enemy, much less your kids: insufferable customers, unbearable employees, difficult working conditions, uncertain long-term prospects. 你的业务中有一些方面你都不希望自己最大的敌人去面对，更不用提自己的孩子了：令人无法忍受的顾客、令人难以忍受的雇员、艰难的工作条件、不确定的长期前景等。 If you would say to your child, No, I wouldnt want you to have to deal with that... why do allow yourself to continue to deal with that? 如果你会对孩子说，不，我不想让你们去处理那些.......为什么还让自己继续处理呢? Naturally you want your kids to be happy. You also deserve to be happy. List the problems, then fix the problems. 当然，你希望你的孩子幸福。但你也要开心。列出问题，然后解决问题。 If you want a better future for your kids, show them the way by making a better future for yourself. 如果你想让孩子有个更好的未来，那你可以让他们看看你是如何让自己的未来更加美好的。

6. Does today feel different than yesterday ? 今天的感觉是不是和昨天一样 ? It should, if only in a very small way. Otherwise youre sitting still. 应该只有一小部分相同，否则你就是停滞不前。

7. Do I say no more than I say yes ? 我说不是不是比说是要频繁 ? No ensures today will be exactly the same as yesterday. Or maybe worse. 说不会让今天和昨天一样，也许更糟。 8. Do I spend money instead of time ? 我是不是更喜欢用金钱代替时间 ? Maybe you buy your kids stuff because you feel guilty for being away so much, or missing events, or being distracted most of the time. Maybe you buy your significant other stuff when you feel guilty about not paying enough attention or showing, by word and action, that you care. 也许你给孩子买礼物是因为你感到内疚，你觉得自己总不在他们身边或错过了他们的活动，或和他们在一起的时间大部分都在走神。也许你觉得没有足够重视生命中的另一半，或没有通过言语和行为表达出来对他们的足够重视，因为心存愧意而给对方买东西。