心灵鸡汤：30岁来临时悟出的人生30个道理(上)_小升初阅读

心灵鸡汤：30岁来临时悟出的人生30个道理(上)

11. Someone will always be better looking. Someone will always be smarter. Someone will always be more charismatic. But they will never be you with your exact ideas, knowledge and skills. 总会有人比你更漂亮、更聪明、更有魅力，但他们都不可能成为你拥有你独特的思想、知识和技能。

12. Making progress involves risk. Period. You cant make it to second base with your foot on first. 取得进步总要冒些风险。没说的，你不可能站在一垒接住二垒的球。

13. Every morning you are faced with two choices: You can aimlessly stumble through the day not knowing whats going to happen and simply react to events at a moments notice, or you can go through the day directing your own life and making your own decisions and destiny. Read The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. 每天早晨你都面临两种选择：漫无目的无所事事平平庸庸蹉跎一日?还是独立自主把握人生与命运度过一天?读一下《高效能人士的七个习惯》。

14. Everyone makes mistakes. If you cant forgive others, dont expect others to forgive you. To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover the prisoner was you. 每个人都会犯错误，如果你不原谅别人，就别指望别人会原谅你。宽恕是释放囚徒，这个囚徒原来正是你自己。

15. Its okay to fall apart for a little while. You dont always have to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well. You shouldnt be concerned with what other people are thinking either cry if you need toits healthy to shed your tears. The sooner you do, the sooner you will be able to smile again. 偶尔崩溃一下也没关系。不必总是冒充强大，不必总是冒充诸事顺遂。你用不着介意人人都想做的事想哭就哭吧，泪水流出来有利于健康。早一点流泪，就能早一点再次微笑。