Dont interrupt give them time to say what they have to say.

不要打岔给他们时间说他们必须说的一切。

Concentrate on what they are saying actively focus your attention on their words, their ideas and their feelings as they relate to the subject.

集中精神听他们说当他们说到主题时，主动把你的注意力放在你们的言语思想和感情上。

Look at the prospect by looking, it gives them confidence that you are, in fact, listening. It helps you to concentrate too.

望着前方 通过望对方，对方就更有信心，说明你正听他说话，这也有助于你集中精神。

Leave your emotions behind try to forget your own worries and problems. Leave them outside of the meeting room. They will prevent you from listening well.

搁置情感 暂时忘记你自己的烦恼和问题，把它们都通通留在会议室门外，因为它们会让你没法好好听。

Understand the main points concentrate on the main ideas and not the illustrative material.

理解要点集中精力听主要意思而非说明性材料。

Dont argue mentally when you are trying to understand other people, it is a handicap to argue with them mentally as they are speaking. This only sets up a barrier between yourself and the speaker.

切忌激烈地争论 如果你想理解别人哀兵必胜说的话，那么在别人说话的时候与别人激烈地争论就会成为一大障碍。这只会在你与说话人之间设下一道鸿沟。

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