李开复强烈推荐：保持每天好心情的9条建议_小升初阅读

李开复强烈推荐：保持每天好心情的9条建议

3. Give a gift to everyone you meet. 3. 向每位遇到的人传递正能量

Im not talking about a formal, wrapped-up present. Your gift can be your smile, a word of thanks or encouragement, a gesture of politeness, even a friendly nod. And never pass beggars without leaving them something. Peace of mind is worth the spare change. 我并不是要你去送一些包装精美的礼品。你的礼物可以是一个微笑，一句感谢或者鼓励的话，一个礼貌的动作，甚至只是善意的颔首。经过乞讨者时，留下些零钱吧。善良的心灵比零钱更值钱。

4. Deflect partisan conversations. 4. 尽可能不谈及敏感话题

Arguments about politics and religion never have a right answer but they definitely get people all riled up over things they cant control. When such topics surface, bow out by saying something like: Thinking about that stuff makes my head hurt. 有关政治和宗教的话题永远没有正确答案，但却会让人心浮气躁，难以掌控谈话的局面。如果出现了这样的话题，就可以用一句想到这些事情我就头疼，礼貌地退出讨论。

5. Assume people have good intentions. 5. 假设人们动机善良

Since you cant read minds, you dont really know the why behind the what that people do. Imputing evil motives to other peoples weird behaviors adds extra misery to life, while assuming good intentions leaves you open to reconciliation. 你没有读心术，所以你不会明白人们行为背后的真正含义。不要为他人怪异的举动注入不良的动机，这只会让生活更加愁云惨淡而已。反而假设人们的动机善良，会让你有更多的机会去与对方和解。