6. Ask them to do you a favour
请他们帮你一个忙
It may sound backwards, but it’s true. Research shows that asking somebody to do you a personal favour tends to make them like you more, so ask for something small like their help to choose a gift for a friend. Then thank them plenty and show your gratitude by inviting them on a second date!
听起来可能会不理解,但这是真的。研究表明,请别人帮你一个忙通常会让他们更加喜欢你,所以请他们帮个小忙,比如说在为朋友选礼物上给个建议。然后深情地谢谢他们,再次邀约他们以表达你的谢意。
7. Pick up your own tab
为自己那一份买单
It’s so much less complicated than negotiating any other payment arrangement with someone you barely know. And because it’s fair, neither of you will feel owed or owing.
比起和你几乎不了解的人商量如何结账,各付各的就没那么复杂了。因为这是公平的,所以你们双方不会觉得谁欠谁。
8. No humblebragging
不要过分谦虚
Yes, it’s impressive that you compete in triathlons/run your own business/know that DJ. It’s so impressive that pretending to be humble or embarrassed when you’re actually pretty damn proud is just silly. Brag openly and briefly, as in, “Yeah, I do triathlons. I won the Example Triathlon last year,” then get back to whatever you were talking about before that.
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