简单地告诉你的孩子不要害怕,或停止愚蠢,不是一个有效的方法来帮助他们解决它。你需要正确承认它。无论你怎么思考恐惧,它是非常真实的,他们需要知道你理解。给他们谈论它的机会,表明你真的理解。在你可以帮助他们继续前进之前首先需要先承认恐惧。
2. Let them know that failure IS an option
让他们知道失败可选择的
Society places such pressure on everyone not to fail, we can easily forget that failure is often a key part of the learning process. Most of the greatest inventions in history were the result of a long series of failed attempts before the final successful one was achieved. Don’t let fear of failure hold your kids back, let them know that it’s okay to fail sometimes, show them how they can learn from it in order to do better next time. Model this behavior for them, if you fail at something, show them how you turn it around into a positive.
社会给每个人都不能失败的压力,我们可以很容易忘记失败往往是学习过程的关键部分。历史上最伟大的发明是最终成功的实现之前有一长串的失败的尝试结果。不要让对失败的恐惧阻碍你的孩子,让他们知道有时失败是可以的,向他们展示如何从中学习为了下次做得更好。对他们这种行为做个榜样,如果你失败了的时候,告诉他们你如何变得积极。
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