我学到的另一课有关我对婚姻的理解,即婚后婚姻观的变化,这也很关键。我发现自己会批判性地看待自己作为一名妻子所做出的选择,我的行为会如何影响我的丈夫,我怎样能和他更好地沟通、说话更温柔、做那个我想成为的人。我觉得现在有更深层的一种责任促使我向更好的自己发展。把最美好的自己呈献给我的伴侣以及我们的婚姻,这比之前任何时候都更为重要。当然,那是因为我们融入彼此的生活,相伴一生一世。
Finally, I've learned that while I do feel a sense of responsibility to myself and my husband to continue to be a better person, marriage hasn't really changed our daily lives all that much.
最后,我领悟到,即使我感到有责任继续为自己、为丈夫变得更好,婚姻也并未真改变我们日常生活那么多。
We still go out for drinks with friends, spend lazy Saturday mornings in our pajamas, and take turns making each other coffee. Yet, even when we do these everyday things, we do them as husband and wife.
我们仍能和朋友一起出去喝酒、穿着睡衣慵懒地度过周六早晨、轮流为对方煮咖啡。然而即便我们在做这些日常小事,我们都是以夫妻的名义。
I love being able to call the man I've chosen by his new, shiny title, and likewise being his Mrs. Sometimes, hearing the still new-to-us labels spoken aloud (like, when we introduce each other now as husband and wife) takes me by surprises. In a good way, of course. When I hear those words, I feel grown up in a way I never have before.
【新婚伊始,生活教会你的三堂课】相关文章:
最新
2020-09-15
2020-08-28
2020-08-21
2020-08-19
2020-08-14
2020-08-12