美国得克萨斯州奥斯汀市的心理学家安妮•克劳利指出:“他说不定很想帮助你,顺便讨你欢心。但如果你直接和他说你不需要,会让他顿感挫败,让他觉得你在质疑他的能力,甚至你根本不需要他。”
2. “You should have known.”
2.“你应该懂我的意思。”
You’re setting yourself up for disappointment if you expect your hubby to decipher every last gesture and statement you make, said Ryan Howes, a clinical psychologist based in Pasadena, California.
美国加州帕沙迪纳市的临床心理学家瑞恩•豪斯认为,如果妻子期待丈夫能通过自己的每一个手势和每一段话语来读懂自己的心,一定会大失所望。
“Women become upset when their husbands can’t read between the lines or read their minds but guys are notoriously poor mind readers,” he said. “Wives will save themselves a lot of grief if they can come to accept this and just ask for what they want.”
豪斯说:“妻子会因为丈夫听不出自己的弦外之音或是看不透自己的小小心思而伤心。但男性本来就不擅长读心术。如果女士们都能接受这一点,说清自己到底想要什么,也就不必为此太难过。”
3. “Do you think she’s hot?”
3.“你觉得她好看吗?”
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