豪斯说:“对你的丈夫说‘能不能有点男人样’是对他男性身份的强烈冲击。这句话满含蔑视与羞辱,会对你们之间的感情造成难以弥补的伤害。”
6. “Pick up after yourself. I’m not your mother.”
6.“就不会自己收拾收拾?我又不是你妈。”
There are better ways to encourage your spouse to put his dirty socks in the hamper than telling him you’re tired of feeling like his mom.
与其向丈夫抱怨自己为他操碎了心,不如直接让他自己把脏袜子放进洗衣篮里。
“Many men are sensitive about their relationship with their mother, so suggesting he still wants or needs his mom is not a way to encourage him to change behavior you don’t like ,” Smith said.
史密斯说:“许多男人对自己和母亲的关系很敏感,所以就算你嫌弃他现在还跟个孩子一样需要母亲照顾,他也不会有所改变。”
7. “You never, you should have, you ought to...”
7.“你不能这样,你本来可以这样,你应该这样……”
Sorry, but chiding your spouse about how he never does the dishes (or takes out the trash or drives the kids to school) isn’t likely to inspire change, Berger said.
很遗憾,责骂丈夫从未洗过碗(或者倒过垃圾甚至开车送孩子上学)可以说是徒劳无功的,伯格这样说道。
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