Don’t look at Fantasy Football meet-ups and golf trips as threats to your marriage. It’s quite the opposite, actually; some time apart will likely do your relationship good, Howes said.
豪斯建议,别总担心梦幻足球线下聚会和高尔夫球旅行会威胁到你们的婚姻幸福,其实情况恰恰相反。俗话说得好,小别胜新婚。
“Yes, sometimes a guy’s night is just an excuse to drink and fart but for many guys these are crucial times to connect, seek advice, get support and express some important emotions,” he said. “Wives who feel threatened by this or forbid their husband from attending may be cutting off a vital support system.”
他表示:“当然,丈夫们所谓的夜生活有时不过是想找个地方酗酒和发泄的借口,但大部分情况下,这是找朋友谈天说地,寻求建议,获得支持,倾吐心声的重要时刻。要是妻子们对此心有疑虑或阻止丈夫出门,可能会丧失重要的外援团。”
The biggest bonus of guy time, according to Howes, “There’s a good chance he’ll actually be a better husband if he can compare notes with other husbands and dads.”
关于这种朋友聚会带来的最大收获,豪斯是这样解释的:“在交流中,丈夫可以向其他同为人夫为人父的朋友们取取经,帮助他成为一个更好的丈夫。”
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