2. "I learned that in order for someone to hear you, you have to talk, and in order for something to change, you have listen."

“如果想让对方听到你的心声，你要主动开口;为了寻求改变，你要学会倾听。”

3. "You need things in common, but not common interests -- those will change. You need common values. Take stock of what's important to you, what's right and wrong in your world. Find someone who agrees with that and everything else will come together, more or less."

“你们需要有共同之处，但这不是指普通的兴趣爱好，因为这些会发生改变。你们需要相似的价值观。考虑一下对你重要的是什么，你的世界里什么是对的，什么是错的。找一个能和你达成以上共识的人，其他的共同点也会多多少少随之而来。”

4. "Never assume malice when stupidity will suffice. In other words, never assume your significant other is up to something if they could possibly just be ignorant of the fact that it looks like they are up to something."

“当你做了蠢事的时候，不要怨恨。换句话说，不要以为对方有所图，可能他们只是没有注意到自己的行为看上去像有所企图一样。”

5. "You can't love enough for both people."

“你不能同时爱两个人。”

6. "Even if it doesn't work out, marriage and a divorce can make you a stronger and kinder person."

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