“即使恋爱维持不下去了，那么结婚或是离婚都可以让你成为一个更强壮和更好的人。”

7. "You're not obliged to set yourself on fire in order to keep somebody else warm."

“你没有义务点燃自己去温暖对方。”

8. "Don't let the fear of being alone lead you to deny what you really want. Hold on tightly to personal integrity."

“不要因为害怕孤独而将就、错过了自己真正想要的人。人品不可丢。”

9. "To recognize and show appreciation for the love given by that other person in your life on a daily basis. They need to actually hear it. I should have said it more often."

“每天都要意识到爱的存在，并为对方付出的爱心存感激。而你的心声需要让对方听到。要是曾经的我明白这一点，多表达对爱的谢意就好了。”

10. "You have to ask yourself: 'If you were someone of the opposite sex, would you date yourself?' That kind of made me take a look at my own bad habits and behaviors in a different light. Now when I have a fight or a disagreement in my current relationship, I try to make sure I respond in a manner I would want my partner to respond in."

“你要问问自己：如果你是异性，你会和自己约会吗?这会让我以不同的角度来审视自己的坏习惯和缺点。现在当我在恋爱中和吵架或有歧义的时候，我会换位思考。”

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