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不需要太多，孩子只想要一句鼓励

当他们犯了错误时，鼓励他们原谅自己——帮助他们学会从错误中获得教益并告诉他们你从自己的错误中得到了什么教训。反驳他们的消极谈话，自己一定不要过于压抑以至于看不到失望中的“一线希望”。

6. Make the celebrity culture work for you and them--keep abreast of their current heroes. If they don't know much about them, do some research together to see what has helped them become successful and stay motivated. Magazines and the Internet are full of interviews and stories about how famous people "made it". You can then refer back to this meaningful wisdom when the going gets tough. For example:" David Beckham didn't get where he is today by staying up all night playing computer games," or" Kylie Minogue is so attractive because she smiles all the time."

让明星文化为你和孩子们发挥作用——了解他们当前心目中的英雄人物是哪些。如果他们不太了解这些人物，那你就与孩子们一起做些调查，看看是什么帮助这些明星成功并时刻让自己获得激励。杂志和因特网充满名人如“成功”的访问记和报道。当与孩子的交流出现问题时，可以回想一下并利用这些有用的智慧：比如“如果戴维-贝克汉姆整个晚上都玩

电子游戏，他肯定不会取得今天的成就”或“剀莉-米诺格之所以如此迷人，是因为她总是面带微笑”。

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