当你不再说出那些消极的话语,你会发现自己还是会有那些消极的想法。诚然,我言语上没有抱怨疲劳或是烦躁,但我依然有着这样的想法。和消极的话语一样,消极的想法一样会消磨你的意志。
5. I prayed more.
5、我尝试更多的祈祷
If I was forced to turn the negative into the positive, I turned to God. Perhaps its from prior experience--but for whatever reason, it happened. And my spirit felt nourished.
如果我一定要把负能量转为正能量,我会向上帝求助。也许是从前的经验吧,不管怎样,我感受到了精神上的洗礼。
And at the end of the day? Shit happens. After my fast from complaining, I had what may have been one of the worst days I had experienced. Imagine tough conversations that were draining but necessary (and even worse after the conversation, nothing was resolved) compiled with other people's negativity. Then add a few "first world" problems as I like to call them -- a poor night's sleep, a shattered phone, and a stalling car. What did I do? I complained. Where did it get me? Not too far. I noted a day later that things really aren't that bad. People have good days and people have bad days -- but the truth is? It's all about your outlook.
最后怎样了呢?糟糕的事情还是发生了,在我拒绝抱怨之后,我经历了非常糟的一天。想象一下:艰难的谈话使你心力交瘁(更可恶的是谈完之后什么都没有解决),你不得不承受着别人的负能量。接着还有那些我称之为“第一世界”的麻烦困扰着你——睡眠不足,手机被摔坏,车子抛锚。我是怎么应对的?我抱怨了。持续了多久呢?没有多久,因为后来我明白其实事情也没有想象的那样不堪。世事无常嘛,关键在于你怎样看待这个世界。
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