在人际交往中,你是否听到过“我看他/她就不顺眼”,“他/她对我有意见有偏见”等等这样的抱怨呢?怎么才能很好地融入到人际交往当中去呢?根据自我实现预言理论(self-fulfilling prophecy),你希望别人对你好,首先你要正确地对待他们——对他们好。
A self-fulfilling prophecy is a prediction that directly or indirectly causes itself to become true.
“自我实现预言”指的是直接或间接导致预言本身实现的一种预测。
In other words, a positive or negative prophecy, strongly held belief, or delusion—declared as truth when it is actually false—may sufficiently influence people so that their reactions ultimately fulfill the once-false prophecy.
换句话说,积极的或者消极的预言,强烈坚持的信念,或者错觉(被宣称是真实的,其实是错误的),都可能足以影响到人们,使人们的反应最终会导致先前错误的预言实现。
For example, a person stating “I’m probably going to have a lousy day,” might alter his actions so that such a prediction is fulfilled by his actions. This may be an unconscious gesture. A person who might espouse a self-fulfilling prophecy in a positive way “I’m going to have a great day,” might act in ways that will actually make this prediction true.
比如一个人说:“今天我可能过得很糟糕”,这也许会改变他今天的行为,于是他的行动就又验证了这个自我预言。这也许是种无意识的举动。而另一个人也许会用积极的方式验证自我实现预言,“我今天会过得很棒”,也许他今天的积极举动就会验证自己的预测。
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