我第十次喃喃地道歉之后,他笑着说:“没关系,你的金发很漂亮。”
Huh? It's delivered like a compliment, and I decide to take it as one; if I can't be graceful, I can at least be gracious. But later, after the shoes have come off and I'm in my own quiet room, his words keep dancing through my head. They start wearing a different kind of groove, leading to questions like:
嗯?听起来像恭维我,我决定就当成是恭维吧。如果我不能跳得很优雅,至少可以彬彬有礼。但后来我脱掉鞋安静地坐在自己屋里时,他的话一直萦绕在我的脑海。我开始觉着那些话有些言外之意,使我想到了几个问题:
Do I act blonde? If you believe the stereotype, blondes are assumed to be helpless, shallow, unambitious or naive. Now I know these traits have nothing to do with hair color. Still, something in this idea strikes a nerve.
我表现得像金发美女吗?如果你相信老一套的说法,就知道金发美女被认为无助、肤浅、要求不高或者幼稚,现在我知道了这些特点都和头发颜色没关系。但总会有些东西说到你心里。
Why do I apologize so much? In what ways do I minimize myself and my efforts?
为什么我要说那么多道歉的话?我是怎么把自己和自己的努力说得什么都不是的?
How seriously do I take myself?
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