Psychologists have spent years studying the traits that are fundamental to successful long-term relationships and come up with a few key ideas.

心理学家花了多年研究保持长期恋爱关系的特点，发现了关键的几条。

You think about your partner often when you're not together

你们不在一起的时候，你也在想你的爱侣

Certain relationship characteristics were linked to stronger feelings of love. One especially interesting finding: The more often people reported thinking about their partner when they were apart, the more in love they felt.

某些恋爱关系的特点和更深层的情感相关联。有个有趣的发现：和伴侣分开始想着伴侣越多，他们感受到的爱也更多。

You respond positively to each other's good news

你们对彼此的好消息都作出正面回应

A passive-constructive response would be understated support -- a warm smile and a simple "That's good news.

"富积极建设意义的回应是含蓄的支持，如温暖的微笑和简单一句“这是好消息”。

You spend some time apart, with your own friends

你们会分开和自己的朋友一起共度时光

If you want to be happy in your marriage, it's best not to look to your partner for all your existentialneeds. Psychologists recommend finding yourself in hobbies, friends, and work as well.

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