随着我们在专业领域不断精进,我们可能会发现自己遣词造句的方式也跟着变了。为了避免遭受批评,我们拒绝承认自己的不足;为了保全自己的地位,我们不在认可别人。然而,这么做不会让你成为专家,而是一个不懂装懂的人。为了避免成为后者,在日常的交流中不妨多用用下面3个表达方式。真正的专家对自己的价值学识自信笃定,不会因为使用这三个表达而变得妄自菲薄。相反,他们经常使用它们,这不光不会让人觉得专他们含糊其辞、摇摆不定,反而让他们显得更加聪明老练。
1. "What do you think?" Taking the time to consider multiple ideas—especially those of others—shows you're smart enough to do your research. Know-it-alls resist input from others and put themselves in situations where they make more mistakes (and also turn off everyone around them). If you're smart, you'll want to seek out the ideas and opinions of others to better inform your own.
“你的想法是什么?”花点时间考虑下不同的观点?特别是别人的观点。这么做会让人觉得你够聪明,让人觉得你的确能处理好手上的研究任务。不懂装懂的人总是拒绝接受别人的介入,而这让他们自己更容易犯错(也会拖累身边的人)。真正睿智的人会综合考虑别人的观点来使自己的想法更完善。
2. "I was wrong." Know-it-alls let their pride get the best of them and aren't able to admit failure. Recognizing when you've erred, learning from it, and then quickly moving forward is the sign of a truly mature, well-functioning adult. Everyone makes mistakes, and they're necessary to grow and improve."
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