亲密的友情弥足珍贵。有一项研究发现,在过去的20年里,受访者及其朋友共同讨论重要问题的几率从平均2.94个百分点下降到2.08个百分点。如果你的亲密朋友多于2-3个,那么你应该感到高兴,因为在你的有限生命中,你从社交联系及正面的人际关系的收获是参与体育锻炼的两倍,并且与戒烟的好处是一样强大。
And where professional relationships are concerned ...
那么当考虑到职业关系的时候……
3. You choose the people around you
3.你选择了身边共事的人
Some people have employees who drive them nuts. Some people have customers who are obnoxious. Some people have casual acquaintances who are selfish, all-about-me jerks.
有的人会雇用让他们发疯的员工,有的人会找一些讨厌的顾客,还有人会结识一些自私,以自我为中心的泛泛之交。
Guess what: They chose those people. Those people are in their professional or personal lives because they let them remain.
猜猜怎么样:他们选择了那些人。那些人就在他们的职业和个人生活当中,因为他们任其不管。
Successful people attract successful people. Hardworking people attract hardworking people. Kind people associate with kind people. Great employees want to work for great bosses.
成功人士吸引成功人士。努力工作的人吸引同样努力工作的人。友善的人会与友善的人建立联系。那么,好的员工当然想为好的老板效力了。
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