如何再次爱上另一半_公共英语阅读理解

如何再次爱上另一半

研究员们要求每一位受试者携带30张现任或前任的照片。首先，研究人员们询问受试者对照片之人的迷恋和喜爱程度，并测量了他们的脑波——研究员们尤其关注了晚正电位（LPP）脑波，当我们专注于情感相关之事时，晚正电位会变得更强。

The participants were then told to look at the pictures and think positive thoughts about their partner, their relationship and their future together, before their brain waves and feelings were measured again.

然后，在又一次测量他们的脑波和情感前，研究员们让受试者看着图片，并积极思考另一半、情感关系以及共同的未来。

But can we really control love? “Control implies suppressing it and being king or queen of it,” Harvard Medical School psychologist Susan David told The Wall Street Journal.

但我们真的可以控制爱吗？“控制意味着抑制或是成为其王或后，”哈佛医学院心理学家苏珊•大卫在接受《华尔街日报》的采访时说道。

So even if we can’t actually control love, we can shape it.

所以即使我们不能控制爱，我们也能塑造爱。

How to fall back in love

如何再次坠入爱情

* Make small changes - whether that’s hugging your partner before leaving for work in the morning or greeting them warmly when you come back, it can make a difference.