Is it hard to live as a bachelor your whole life?
一辈子单身很难吗?
获得10.7k好评的答案@Jay Bazzinotti:
Yes it is and sucks more and more as you get older.
很难,而且年纪越大,单身就越难。
Speaking as a single, 54 year old man who has never been married I can tell you that being alone as you get older is a scary and unpleasant proposition.
作为一个从没结过婚的54岁单身老男人来说,我能告诉你,当你老了还是一个人的话,这是一件既可怕又讨厌的事。
Now, it's relatively easy to find anyone to marry but it's not just as easy as grabbing the first available woman who will have you and tying the knot.
当然,现在是很容易就可以找到人结婚,但是想要吸引一个愿意和你结婚的未婚女子却没有那么容易。
As you get older you become more aware and sure of your values and what you want.
年纪越大,你对自己的价值观和自己想要的东西就越了解。
If you are not careful you become inflexible and unable to negotiate those values.
如果你不注意这些,你就会成为一个老顽固,无法同那些价值观妥协。
I don't regret the good times I had or the adventures or the exciting romantic rendezvous but I think all those things pale in comparison to sharing consistent, cohesive moments with someone you build a future with and plan to grow old with, and do.
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