“Whether it's inborn nature or developed character at work,too much control in the hands at the young isn't healthy for children or the family.Fear is at the root of a lot of bossy behavior,”says family psychologist John Taylor.“Children”,he says in his book From Defiance to Cooperation,“have secret feelings of weakness”and“a desire to feel safe.”It's the parents' role to provide that protection.
When a “bossy child” doesn't learn limits at home,the stage is set for a host of troubles outside the family.The overly willful and unbending child may have trouble obeying teachers or coaches,for example,trouble keeping friends.It can be pretty lonely as the top dog if no one likes your bossy ways.
“I see more and more parents giving up their power,”says Barkley,who has studied bossy behavior for more than 30 years.“They bend too far because they don't want to be as strict as their own parents were.But they also feel less confident about their parenting skills.Their kids,in turn,feel more anxious.”
【语篇解读】 对孩子而言,无论是生来俱有的还是后天养成的霸道行为都是无益的,因为这种行为的根源是恐惧。父母应为孩子遮风挡雨,而不是纵容他们我行我素。否则他们难以融入社会,陪伴他们的只有无尽的孤独。
1.Bossy children like Stephen Jackson ________.
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