Being disparate works against us because it invariably drives us to trying to make short cuts and cut corners. Cutting corners is not about being solid good. It’s trickery and make believe. If a boy chases you, for example and desperation drives him to stalk you every hour of the day, what will happen? His thinking being, of course, if he sends you a flower once a week, he may get your full attention in six months; if he sends you a flower every day of the week, then he can quicken the process seven-fold.
Now, you tell me if such a strategy works on you.
On the other hand, if he be patient, he may have a better sense to do what’s right by you, i.e. showering you with loving attention when you need it while ignoring you when you want to be left alone. In the meantime, he keeps doing the things that will make him a capable, responsible and attractive man. Now, tell me, if he does this, won’t he have a better chance with you in, say, six week’s time?
Of course! And if not in six weeks, then six months.
If not this year, then next.
That’s the whole point.
So therefore, I’m telling you to keep doing things that will make you good. Exams, like boys, come and go, and like crops, they are there every year. If you don’t have this year’s crops to fully satisfy your heart’s desire, then it will happen the next year, or the year after.
So long, that is, as you don’t shirk. The sun never shirks, therefore flowers bloom every spring.
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