My favorite thing about people who are comfortable with themselves is they need no external validation.
对于那些悦己的人,我很喜欢的一点就是他们不需要外界的认可。
They have discovered their worth is intrinsic and, by nature, something that cannot be taken away or added to based on what other people think.
他们已经发现自己的价值是内在的、是与生俱来的,不会被别人抢走,也不会因为别人的看法而增加。
Ironically enough, this ends up providing comfortable people with more external validation than those who feel they need it most.
讽刺的是,相较于那些非常渴望别人认可的人来说,悦己的人最终能得到更多的外界认可。
Because comfortable people’s worth comes from within, they see no point in tearing others down. To them, the only sensible way to speak about another is positively.
因为悦己的人的价值来自于内在,他们觉着诋毁别人没有意义。对他们而言,积极地谈论别人才是唯一明智的方式。
I guess when you realize your worth comes from within, you might as well build others up rather than tear them down, since their size is of no threat to your sense of self-worth.
我想当你意识到你的价值来自内心的时候,你倒不如赞美别人、而不是诋毁他们,因为他们并不会威胁到你的自尊。
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