如果你很想和某个人加深关系,不妨带TA们出去散个步,周边景致很好可以散很久的那种。免去了面对面的交流可以消除一部分社交压力,而且优美的风景能让你们心情好得敞开心扉。
Don't ask people if they're free on a certain date without specifying why you're asking. Simply asking "are you free on Friday?" comes across like you're tricking the other person into doing whatever it is you want them to do.
先说清楚自己的目的,再问人家某天是否有空。如果只是问“周五你有空吗”这样的问题就会给人感觉你在诱使他们去做你自己想让他们做的事情。
If you constantly vent your problems to someone, make sure to also call them when things are going well. Good listeners can sometimes get overwhelmed, and it's nice to hear positive news. To add to that, also make sure you're available to let them vent their problems. Relationships are a two way street.
如果你不停地跟某个人诉苦,那最好在事情步入正轨之后给TA们一个信儿。贴心的倾听者们有时候也会懵,所以最好让他们收到好消息。另外还有一点就是,你自己也得保证有空听他们倒苦水。毕竟人际关系是双向的。
If you have a chore that you actually enjoy, never tell anyone you enjoy it.
如果有一件其实你很喜欢做的杂务,千万不要告诉任何人!
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