斯托特说：“这个问题看似很随意，但你却能知道对方是个什么样的人。”她建议早点问这个问题。“通常要么是积极主动型，要么是懒散型。”

5. How do they handle stressful situations?

对方如何应对危机情况？

"The way someone deals with things that go wrong in their life can be a real indicator of how compatible you might be with them," Stott said. "And there isn't a right or wrong way they might be."

斯托特说：“从一个人处理危机事件的方式可以看出你和这个人能否和谐相处。而应对危机的方式没有对错之分。”

For instance, some people retreat into themselves and need coaxing out by someone who is more in touch with their feelings. If two emotional hermits start dating, it might not be a totally healthy relationship that blossoms.

比如，有些人会将自己封闭起来，只有亲密的人才能让他们打开心扉。如果刚开始谈恋爱的两个人都是这种“情感隐士”，那么这段恋情可能不会顺利发展下去。

If you go through something stressful, see how the other person reacts. It doesn't have to be anything big, but it can be a good gauge for how much help they will be during the tougher things life throws at you. If they are dismissive or don't seem to care about your troubles, it could be a sign they're afraid of intimacy, or can't communicate very well.

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