Being sociable can mean many things.

说话的技巧有很多。

But in some aspects, there is only one criteria in judging whether one is sociable or not. And that is whether this person can understand how other people think or not.

但从某种意义上来讲，评判一个人会不会说话只有一个标准，那就是“能否懂得换位思考”。

When some people talk with others, they'll fall into silence after a few sentences.

有些人聊天的时候，还没说几句话，双方就陷入了沉默。

They want to find something to talk about but don't know what to say.

很想主动找点话题，但又不知道怎么开口。

And if this kind of things happen too often, some of them will start to avoid communicating with others. And some of them even start to doubt if they are incapable in communicating.

这种情况多了，有的人就会开始逃避与人交流，甚至怀疑自己是不是有社交障碍。

And there is another kind of people. When they talk with other people, after a while, the people who they talk to will become not so happy.

还有些人聊天的时候，聊着聊着，对方就不开心了。

This is not because they are too emotional.

这并不是因为对方太情绪化了。

This problem comes from us.

出问题的经常是我们自己。

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