其实,孩子就像一颗刚出土的小苗,很小、很脆弱,需要精心呵护。而不是一会儿是零上40度的高温,一会儿又是零下40度的低温,小苗面对这样忽高忽低的温度就彻底摧毁了,根本不可能正常生长!孩子需要的是鼓励,而不是抓住弱点死不放大声喝叱,这样就大大伤害了孩子的自尊心。作为父母要切记,大人需要自尊,孩子也同样需要自尊。如果违背了这一点,那么父母和孩子只会唱对台戏,父母和孩子就永远没有沟通的可能,做父母的也永远都会感到力不从心,也就更不可能和孩子像朋友一样相处了。
In fact, a child is like a young seedling just unearthed. It is very small and fragile and needs careful care. Instead of a high temperature of 40 degrees above zero and a low temperature of 40 degrees below zero, the seedlings will be completely destroyed in the face of such a high and low temperature, and it is impossible to grow normally at all! What a child needs is encouragement, rather than holding on to his weak points and not shouting and scolding, which greatly hurts his self-esteem. As parents, remember that adults need self-esteem, so do children. If this is violated, then parents and children will only play opposite roles, and parents and children will never be able to communicate, and parents will always feel powerless, and even more impossible to get along with children like friends.
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