孔子的“己所不欲,勿施于人”是一种精神意义上的双赢,它抹去了勉强别人所带来的压力,也减少了被别人勉强所带来的痛苦;“姜太公钓鱼”是一种行动上的双赢,他避免了垂钓人枯坐求鱼时的心焦,也减少了池中鱼儿嬉闹时的忐忑。两不伤害,求的是一份静默,是一份期许和等待。于是孔圣人成就了美名,于是姜子牙等到了他的伯乐。
Confucius's "don't do to others what you don't want to do to others" is a win-win situation in the spiritual sense, which eliminates the pressure of forcing others to do so and reduces the pain of being forced to do so by others; "Jiang Taigong fishing" is a win-win situation in action, which avoids the anxiety of fishermen when they sit and beg for fish, and also reduces the anxiety of fish when they play in the pool. Two do not hurt, seeking is a silence, is a promise and waiting. So sage Kong became famous, so Jiang Ziya waited for his bole.
郑和是一个航海家,率领船队浩浩荡荡地出发。他带着天朝上谕,所到之处,送陶瓷,送丝绸,送茶叶。他送去是一个古老的东方国度的文化,同时也收获了异域文化,更有礼赞和膜拜。他是东方的“礼”,是东方的智慧。当哥伦布带着他远洋的发现,成为了西方殖民者在海上旅行的明灯时,他只不过是一个殖民者的先驱,为了东方的黄金,为了东方的丝绸而来。所到之处,带给土著居民以灾难,带走了车载斗量的财富,留下了殖民地上泣血的控诉。所以郑和的航海史是金色的,处处焕发着“双赢”所带来的人伦光辉;所以哥伦布的航海史是血色的,处处浸染着贪婪所带来的罪恶。
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