In life, no one can always be smooth, "the moon has its ups and downs", there are some mistakes in work, some whirlpools in marriage, points deducted for running the red light, fake and shoddy products bought in shopping malls, entangled in the streets by rogues, robbed and blackmailed for handling affairs in organs, etc. When something happened, spit out bitter water, complain two or three times, shout "how can I be so unlucky" to the sky, relieve the inner tension, and obtain a temporary psychological balance, which is not a good way. However, if you indulge in the whirlpool of "how can I be so unlucky", I think it's a very dangerous mood: the light, the mood is in a kind of abnormal field, no mind to work, no spirit to enjoy life, which will affect your quality of life, but also affect your family, friends, colleagues; the heavy, let this unbalanced mood multiply and overflow, may affect your family, friends and colleagues Others and society produce anonymous hostility. Under impulse, they may also do irrational things, harm others and themselves. Therefore, I would like to advise these people: shouting "how can I be so unlucky" must be enough. When braking, it is necessary to brake.
心理平静下来,换一个角度看问题:工作出差错是谁的责任?如果是别人的原因,想一想是有意还是无心之失?如果是自己的原因,想一想该怎么补救?闯红灯被扣分罚款,是不是理所应当?买了伪劣产品,应该怎样去维护自己的权利?被无赖纠缠,应该怎么与之斗智斗勇?遭“衙役”冷眼,要想想该如何挺直“主人”的腰板……少一些抱怨,多一些争取;少一些牢骚,多一些阳光笑脸,那样的话,挂在嘴边的将不再是“我怎么这么倒霉呢”,而是“我怎么这么勇敢、大度、幸运呢”。
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