心肠太好的问题在于它往往还伴随着其它特征,比如太随和、不愿发表意见、或在建设性地批评同事时表现勉强。下面这些建议能让你在“人好”的同时又能“富有创造力、才华横溢、聪明绝顶”。
Set boundaries.
要有底线
People who are too nice rarely say no. However, there's a vast chasm between helping out in a pinch and being overly accommodating. If you accept every request, even when your plate is full, you risk being taken advantage of and can quickly burn out. The next time a colleague asks for your help and you're slammed with your own work, ask if you can lend a hand later, when you're less busy.
“人好”的人们很少说“不”。不过,必要时的帮助和过分的热心可是有着天壤之别的。如果你在自己手边事情一大堆的时候都有求必应,那么你就很可能被人利用,很快就会精力枯竭。下次如果一位同事要你帮忙,而你也有一大堆自己的工作,就告诉他/她等你不太忙的时候再帮忙。
(to be continued)
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