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发现通往成功的道路

Secondly, having all this knowledge and wisdom and wanting to apply it liberally and freely to the masses is like being a driver of a car who is forced to stay patient idling the engine when all he or she really wants to do is rev it up, screech tires and lay rubber on the speedway. Of course the impatience shows big-time and over-flavors the enemy pride and ego even further. And less running success is the obvious result, making the impatience worsen in a vicious circle.

How do you walk to success in the self-growth and self-improvement business? Here are some walking lessons learned the hard way.

1. You have to carefully listen to and understand other people’s problems before you know what the common ground is between you, where you can offer the most important part of your solutions to build upon what they are doing right, when the right time arises.

Sometimes when you are running, this is too much of a blur. And much of the time people really don’t want or even need your “cure.” They just want to be heard and understood. This is no longer common with just unhappily married female spouses with non-listening husbands.

2. You can know mountains of good stuff but it is only a valuable mountain to you. With others it may be more of an obstacle to getting to trust you enough to share vulnerabilities and secrets and ask questions. It is trite but true: People don’t care what you know until they know you care. And expressing genuine care doesn’t happen overnight or by instant fiat.