5. Make Them Your Top Priority
把他们放在首位
When you are listening to someone, don’t take calls or let someone else who walks up take precedence over the current conversation. When you are with someone, make them priority.
当你倾听某人时,不要接电话,也不要让走过前来的其他人打断你们的交谈。当你和某人在一起时,请重视他们。
6. Repeat, Don’t Refute
重复,不要反驳
When someone is telling you their story, they aren’t looking for you to interrupt with analysis or suggestions. Hear them out. Repeat back to them what you heard. You can put on your “fix it” hat later. (Only if asked!)
当有人向你讲述他们的故事时,他们不希望你打断他,作分析、提建议。听他们说完,重复你听到的内容,最后你可以作补充(只是在对方要求你的情况下)。
7. Don’t Do Other Work
放下其他工作
In our busy technology driven world, it is tempting to send off that quick text or answer that email. Don’t. People can tell when you are doing something else. You may think it is a brief task, but it tells the other person that you have more important work to do. This is not the time to multi-task.
在如今这个被科技所驱使的忙碌世界里,发一条短信回复一封邮件很诱人。不要这样做,人们能感觉到你在忙别的事情。你可能认为,这是长话短说的事情,但其他人会理解为有更重要的工作在等你。这不是多项工作一起做的时候。
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