8. Put the Cell Phone Down
放下手机
We give our phones too much control over us. We jump any time they ring, beep, or buzz. So, silence your phone. Turn it off or put it in a drawer. Better yet, “Stop having an affair with your smartphone.”
手机牵着我们的鼻子走,手机一响,不论嘟嘟还是嗡嗡,我们都会一跃而起。所以让手机安静一会儿,关掉它或把它丢进抽屉里。最好“不要与你的智能手机扯不清理还乱”。
9. Question
提问
Ask questions to show that you care and that you are in the conversation. Don’t go into interrogation mode. Ask interest questions like, “What happened next?” or “How did you feel then?”
问问题表示,你关心谈话的内容,而且你的思想就在交谈中。不要误入审问模式。问表示关心的问题,如:“接下来呢?”或“你当时什么感觉?”
10. Thank Them
表示感谢
After a conversation, say “Thank you for talking to me.” You don’t have to provide an answer or magical solution. Often, the other person just wants to be heard and acknowledged. Be there for them and just listen.
交谈结束后,说“谢谢你与我交谈”。你不必提供答案或奇妙的解决方案。对方常常只希望被倾听被认同,在他们身边仅仅倾听就够了。
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