5. “It will never work.”
“这事儿根本没辙。”
Stop telling yourself you will fail because self-fulfilling prophecies almost always come true.
不要暗示自己会失败——因为心理暗示往往会成真。
6. “I’m a bad person.”
“我不是个好人。”
Everyone makes mistakes. No matter what wrong you feel you have done to a person, agonizing over a past event that cannot be undone will not make the situation better (and will make you feel a lot worse). Whether you ate something you know you shouldn’t have, said something hurtful that you wish you could take back or made a mistake on the job, don’t live in the past. If you apologized and explained yourself, then it is time to move on. Focus your energy to the future because that’s where progress happens.
人人都会犯错。不管你觉得自己如何对不起某人,为了过去的事而一味自责也无济于事,甚至还会让你更愧疚。不论是吃了不该吃的东西、说了不该说的狠话,还是犯了不该犯的工作错误,既然事情已经过去,就不要再耿耿于怀。如果你已经作了道歉和解释,那就让它过去吧。把精力投入到未来,那才是进步的开始。
7. “What will they think about me?”
“别人会怎么看我啊?”
While you should do everything you can to make people around you comfortable, you shouldn’t sacrifice your genuine personality in order to please other people. Embrace your authentic self and share it with the world. If a person doesn’t like you for who you are, that is their problem (and their loss).
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