研究表明,一个人的人际关系好坏和他平时的说话习惯是高度相关的。老话说得好,祸从口出,糟糕的说话方式很容易破坏你平日里精心培养起来的人际关系。看看以下的6种说话的禁忌有没有在你身上发生吧。
1. The Fake Agreement:Pretending to agree while expressing the opposite point of view.
1.虚假认同:假装认同别人的同时却表现出相反的观点。
Typical usage: “I'm with you… but I just don’t think we should take on that project.”
经典语句:“我很赞同你的观点……不过我不认为我们应该采用那个项目。”
In reality you aren't really with me because then you would agree with what I’m saying. (Plus beginning a sentence with something like, “I hear you…” is like a condescendingpat on the head.)
事实是你根本不同意我,因为不管我说什么你都会说你同意。(补充一句,如果一句话用“我听说你……”这样的语句来开头的话,听上去就好像上级拍着下级的脑袋在讲话一样。)
Don’t try to couch a different opinion inside a warm and fuzzyFake Agreement. If you disagree, just say so professionally.
不要试着把不同的意见硬装在一句友善的、模棱两可的赞同中。你要是不同意,就直接正式地说出来。
2. The Unsupported Closure: Ending a discussion or making a decision without backup or solid justification.
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