Kjerulf说“和那些你信任的同事分享秘密。”别背后中伤你觉得会妨碍你事业的同事,不妨跟你信任的同事说说你看待事物的方式问问他们的意见。“也许你完全乱了阵脚,希望他们告诉你如何是好。”职业训练师,SixFigureStart的合伙人Connie Thanasoulis-Cerrachio说道“有个客观的听众显得格外重要。”
Take notes.
记笔记
Keep notes on what is happening so things are clear, in case you end up talking to your boss or HR about the situation, Thanasoulis-Cerrachio says. Also save all related e-mails.
Thanasoulis-Cerrachio说不妨记下来发生了什么,这样才能看的更清楚,这样和老板或HR谈论情况的时候才有据可循。email也可以。
Confront the culprit.
直面搅局者
Once you’ve discovered that you are a target, consider yourself warned and take action to mitigate any damages, Parnell says. “One of the best ways to protect yourself is ingratiation. Guilt, empathy and sympathy are powerful motivators and the most direct way to extract them is by befriending your saboteur and gaining a position within their camp. While on the face this may seem weak, some of the most powerful nations in the world use this very method to infiltrate and overcome an enemy.” In the words of Michael Corleone, “Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.”
一旦发现你成为了目标,要让自己警惕起来,免于任何的伤害。Parnell说“保护自己的最好方式就是讨好。负罪感,同理心和同情心是强有力的推动器,也是和搅局者成为朋友的最直接方式,能在他们的阵营中获得一席之地。也许面子上看有点弱势,但世界上最强大得国家莫不是用这个方法来渗透战胜了敌人。”用Michael Corleone的话来说,“和朋友保持亲密,和敌人更加亲密。”
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