同事太懒怎么办：教你如何和懒同事相处_职场英语

同事太懒怎么办：教你如何和懒同事相处

1. 不要让他们分散你的注意力。你的懒惰同事不断地查看Facebook、发送手机短信或者在你旁边的办公桌打瞌睡，但是你不必整天花时间关注这种情形。尽量不要理他们，专心做你自己的工作。罗宾斯说：“人们这样做很可笑。我们花更多的时间关注我们不干活的同事，而不是关注我们自己的工作。”

2. Don’t get caught up in the issue of fairness. Life isn’t fair. “People often say ‘it’s unfair that he gets away with doing nothing,’ but at the end of the day, it really doesn’t change anything,” Robbins says. “By pointing out that it’s not fair, we just make ourselves feel bad and the situation doesn’t change.” Instead, focus on being the best that you can be.

2. 不要纠结于公平问题。生活原本就不公平。罗宾斯说：“人们经常说，这不公平，他什么也没干，却照样拿钱，但是归根结底，这并不会改变任何东西。指出这种不公平的情形，我们只会让自己感觉糟糕，而情况也不会有所改观。”相反，你要专注于把自己的工作做到最好。

3. Decide who you want to be. “These tips are really all about behavior, but there’s a more important question: Who do you want to show up as in your life?” he says. “Think of the people you deeply admire, and what personal qualities make them admirable? Regardless of the practical implications of your actions, ask yourself how the ‘Ideal You’ would deal with the situation. You’ll behave very differently with Chuck Norris as your role model then with Ghandi as your role model.” Sometimes, who you are as a person is more important in determining your actions than momentary concerns of a specific situation.