他们听到的是:“你不听我的,都是你的错,我比你优秀多了。”
This one is a common no-no. It’s useless to shoot a dead horse, especially when other person needs your help more than ever. Don’t keep tabs on who’s right and who’s wrong. If it were a competition, the one keeping tabs would be the one losing.
这句话真心不要说。马后炮真的一点意义都没有,尤其是别人无比需要你的帮助的时候。不要再去纠结于谁是对的谁是错的。如果有个比赛,那个总是纠结的人绝对是输家。
Help the other person, and don’t add insult to injury.
帮助别人,不要再在别人的伤口上撒盐。
6. “As I just said before…”
“就像我之前说过的”
What they hear: “You don’t listen to me. You’re making me repeat myself. You’re so annoying and dumb.”
他们听到的是:“你不听我的,你让我重复说,多烦人多笨啊。”
This is a very sneaky conversation killer. If someone asks you a question and you point out that you’ve already answered it, then you’re killing their willingness to learn, or even to have a slight interest in what you say.
这绝对是对话杀手。如果有人问你问题,你指出已经回答过了,那么其实你已经扼杀了他们想要学习的欲望,甚至是对你话语的一丁点兴趣。
Say the same thing in another way and by illustrating it differently.
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