7. Talk behind someone's back.
在背后说人是非
If you've talked to more than one person about something Joe is doing, wouldn't everyone be better off if you stepped up and actually talked to Joe about it? And if it's "not your place" to talk to Joe, it's probably not your place to talk about Joe.
你对不止一个人谈论关于乔正在做的一些事情,但如果你亲自去跟乔说起这些,不是更好吗?如果你没有权利去和乔讨论,那么你就没有资格去谈论乔。
Spend your time on productive conversations. You'll get a lot more done--and you'll gain a lot more respect.
把你的时间花在更有成效的对话中去。你将会完成得更多,并且获得更多的尊敬。
8. Say "yes" when I really mean "no."
口是心非,不会拒绝
Refusing a request from colleagues, customers, or even friends is really hard. But rarely does saying no go as badly as you expect. Most people will understand, and if they don't, should you care too much about what they think?
拒绝一个来自同事,顾客,甚至是朋友的请求,真的很难。但是偶尔拒绝也并不会像你想象中那么坏。大多数人会理解的,而且如果他们不理解的话,你也没有必要去太多关注别人的想法,不是吗?
When you say no, at least you'll only feel bad for a few moments. When you say yes to something you really don't want to do you might feel bad for a long time--or at least as long as it takes you to do what you didn't want to do in the first place.
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