2. Talk about the Things That Matter To You
讲讲自己在乎的事情
A relationship becomes the strongest when two people discover they believe in the same things and have similar interests. It’s these commonalities regarding values and interests that create the strongest emotional connection.
当两个人发现彼此的信仰和兴趣都很相像时,俩人的关系必然会加深。确实,价值观和兴趣爱好都能搭建起牢固的情感纽带。
I’ve noticed that many people keep conversations shallow. They talk about trivial stuff such as the weather, what’s on TV, the lives of various movie stars, but they rarely talk about what really matters to them in life.
我发现很多人的交谈都比较泛泛。人们一般只会谈些天气、电视节目、电影明星八卦等琐碎话题,很少触及各自生活中他们最在乎的部分。
This is a mistake from my perspective, because it’s the perfect method for a relationship to not develop.
我觉得这样大错特错,是扼杀一段人际关系的杀手锏。
Talk about the things that truly matter to you and give others a chance to know what you care about and what you believe in. If they believe in the same things and they care about the same things, they’ll eagerly let you know. Thus you’ll find meaningful common ground and you’ll feel more connected.
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