Following this came the ‘I do not deserve this!’ strategy, in which they demonstrate to their mate’s parents that they do not warrant their rejection.

接下来是“我不接受!策略。追求者会向伴侣父母表现出，自己不接受他们的反对。

Third most common was the ‘Why don’t you like me?’ approach, in which suitors try to determine why the parents disapprove and try to change their minds.

最常见的第三种是“你为什么不喜欢我?策略。追求者试图判断家长为什么反对，并试图改变他们的想法。

Other tactics include ‘No confrontation’ and ‘You have to accept the situation!’ in which they can threaten the parents by suggesting they risk never seeing their grandchildren.

其他策略包括“不准反对和“你得接受现实!。追求者可威胁对方父母，暗示他们有可能见不到他们的孙儿。

There was also the ‘Approach’ strategy, in which lovers try to grow closer to the in-laws by inviting them for dinner and buying gifts.

还有“接近策略。追求者通过邀请岳父母/公婆共进晚餐和给他们送礼物，试图拉近与他们的距离。

Finally there is the ‘Tell them I am good’ tactic in which the partner is drafted in to persuade their own parents of their lover’s virtues.

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