When youre single, you can buy whatever you want, whenever you want, with little regard for the future. Its not necessarily wise, but youre the only one who has to pay the consequences. When you are with someone in a long-term relationship, that is no longer a possibility. If youre spending money as if it was your money and nobody else has a right to tell you what to do with it, your relationship is doomed.

　　单身的时候，想买什么买什么，随时随地随心所欲，一点不想着将来。这很不明智，但是我们是唯一要为后果付出代价的人。当你长期跟某人交往时，这一切就不再成为可能。如果你还是像以前一样大手大脚觉得别人没权利对你指手画脚，那么你们的感情就完了。

　　6. Youre afraid of breaking up

　　你们总是害怕会分手

　　Nobody in a truly happy partnership is afraid of breaking up. If you are, thats a big warning sign that somethings wrong. But often, whats wrong is the fear itself. Not only does it betray a lack of trust, but it shows a lack of self-confidence and self-esteem. Quite frankly, this isnt going to be very satisfying for you, and it also isnt going to be very satisfying for your partner.

　　拥有真正幸福感情的人是不会害怕分手的。如果你在担心，那就是在警告你，有些东西不太对劲。但经常真正不对劲的是害怕情绪的本身，它不仅泄露了你对对方的不信任，也是你自身缺乏自信自尊的表现。坦白说，如果你对这段感情不满意，那你的爱人又怎么会满足呢?

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