Vic: [pause] Yes, it says its been protecting me from my feelings. Dean: Okay-ask it if its protecting you from any feelings in particular. Vic: [pause] It says, From loneliness.Dean: When it says that, do any other images or feelings come to your awareness?
Vic: Somehow I remember getting fat when I was seven. I see myself going into a room feeling like I was all right, and finding out I was not all right . So my life has been about justification. Justification about being all right. Being accepted. So I used food as a friend. My fat says it protects me from feeling bad. I have a lot of resistance to change. I have a lot invested in this fat. And to give it up is like giving up a friend. Its been a barrier but its also a friend. Its a friend that gets in the way sometimes, but it also serves me really well. But my size limits me in what I want to do now. Dean: Stay with those feelings now. Ask Fat what it needs from you now. Vic: [pause] It says that it needs to be told its all right the way it is. Dean: Maybe you could start by thanking it for shielding, protecting you from loneliness all these years. Vic: [pause] All right. Dean: Does the wall say anything in reply?
Vic: It agrees. It says, Its about time.Dean: Good. Now ask if it would be willing to open up, to stop shielding you all the time. If you could find a different way to shield yourself when you need it-one that is easier to open and close. Vic: A replacement-is that what you are saying?
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