Some people will only choose to pick on someone who appears weaker than they are. By showing you are strong, you may put an end to his behavior. Be aware that it may not. Some bullies crave aconfrontation, and this might only encourage him to come back for more.有些人就是爱找软柿子捏,所以显示出你的强大,可能就会让他们有所收敛。不过也要做好他们不吃这套的准备,因为有些人的气焰可能会由此助长。
3.Avoid involving other people3.别把他人拉下水
Your coworkers will see what is going on and will form opinions. Some may offer to help, but others wont acknowledge the problem. It may not be because they dont see it, but they may be making a choice not to get involved. That may be because they dont want to choose sides or make themselves the bullys focus.你的其他同事都看在眼里,每个人的看法也有所不同。有些人会伸手相助,而有些人视而不见。无动于衷代表的可能不是不当回事儿,而是他们不想受到牵连,被迫选边站或是也成为被攻击的对象。
4.Dont let the bully make you feel bad about yourself4.别因为被欺负而自暴自弃
The bullys goal is to intimidate you and diminish your self-worth. She chose you as her victim because she sees you as a threat. It is not because you have no value, but because you are very good at what you do. By intimidating you, she hopes to weaken you. By her reasoning, diminishing your self-worth will build hers up. Keep that in mind. Continue to do your job and do it well. Dont let workplace bullying cause you to fail.欺负你,就是为了使你害怕、让你自己都瞧不起自己。一女的选你当攻击对象,其实是因为把你视作对手。所以说被欺负不是因为你没本事,而是因为你工作做得好而被人眼红。她通过吓唬你,希望削弱你的气势,这样一来,达到彼竭而我盈的效果。要记住她的动机,并且继续好好做你的工作,别让碧池的雕虫小技打败了。
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