4.我希望我能与朋友们保持联系。
Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.
通常情况下,直到生命即将结束,人们才能真正意识到老朋友对于自己多么重要,但想联系到他们并不是很轻易就能实现的。许多人都是由于平时太忙,以致美好的友谊随着时光的流逝也慢慢逝去。我们因自己未付出足够的时间与精力来维持友谊而抱有深深的遗憾。每个人都会在弥留之际思念朋友。
5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.
5.我希望能让自己更快乐。
This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called comfort of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content, when deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again.
虽说这一点出人意料,却也是普遍存在的遗憾。许多人直到将死之时才意识到快乐是个选择。他们墨守成规与旧习,这种所谓的来自对某种东西熟悉的舒适既充斥了他们的情感也充满了物质生活。惧怕改变使得他们对他人伪装,也对自己伪装,才得到某种满足,但在内心深处,他们却渴望笑得自在,糊糊涂涂再活一次。
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